No one can change anyone. It always starts with you.

Are you resistant to change? Do you have strongholds you are trying to get rid of but can't because you refuse to change?

Are you in a relationship trying to save him/her because you want them to change, but THEY won't?

Do you quit business because it requires stepping out of your comfort box...and its too much CHANGE for you?

We are never to stay where we are at...change is to grow, to excel, to realize our full potential. But you can't do that unless you're honest with yourself, you stop your bad habits, and allow yourself to go through the changes that's necessary to get where you want to be in life.

I'm gonna be bold right now and say, IF the shoe fits:

• Stop being complacent and a procrastinator.
• Stop making lame excuses if you don't to change your situation. Just say no.
• Stop lying to yourself.
• Stop resisting change, rather EMBRACE it.
• Stop pointing fingers
• Stop being lazy and sit around waiting for miracles. Change will happen if you take action.
• Stop trying to change him or her. It's not gonna happen unless they do it themselves.

My video touches on that.

And guess what? I'm almost a WEEK in! 82 more videos! Woot woot!

Jumping to Conclusions is bad juju.

For real. I'm guilty of it.

Man...I needed to get this video out, and I pushed through with a horrible headache, dozing off  and barely any energy left. Its past midnight.  I have NO excuses because my daughter effortlessly created 8 doggy videos in a day. She's 10.  So what's my excuse? lol

ANNNYway, back on topic.

We are ALL guilty of this...we like to come to our own conclusions before hearing the full story because for some reason, we think we're always right.  I have learned in my 37yrs...jumping to conclusions is BAD. Bad bad BAD. Too many unnecessary things happen like a domino effect.

We can prevent it by LISTENING MORE...and exhausting every option and asking questions FIRST.

We gon' learn today. I know I sure did!

This vid was funny to me. I know you will be able to relate, with your OWN situation...and please...like, share, comment and subscribe...this can help SOMEbody. :)

Have you ever been attacked because someone didn't get your message? Or they just have a negative disposition about them?  Unfortunately we can't avoid these people in life. We all are attacked at some point.